So at first when I started using grindr with a pic of me in men's clothes and not disclosing my gender identity I did fairly well, was able to hookup with average looking guys every times i tried. But have had no success lately whatsoever. Getting almost entirely ignored.

Today i bought women's clothes for the first time for my own sake not even thinking about Grindr and than thought it might be fun to list myself as trans woman and try and get fucked in my new skirt. I was not expecting much but thought I'd try it out. I got so much attention from better looking guys than I am used to. But they were all false positives, they acted really interested than after talking for a while and exchanging pics ghosted me, blocked me and one asked for 100$... Normally I am just ignored and that is what I am used to and if that is what had happened I would not have been surprised but I had so many guys just string me on and say they were coming over or say I could come over after they did something and than nothing happened. Can some explain why me looking like a nonpassing crossdresser got me this kind of response?