About a week ago I accepted that I am trans woman but yesterday i had a conversation with an old family friend who detransitioned that made me start to question again. I told him I hate having my dick touched and that I have always only wanted to be on the receiving end sexually and he implied that some gay men feel this way too and the idea that feeling this way might make me not a man is harmful to gay men. This genital dysphoria is not the only thing that makes me believe i am trans but it is a big part of it. I should note that I am not only interested in men i like women too but have only been with men because its a lot easier to find men that who are willing to accept a sexual partner who only want to bottom and hates having their dick touched. But are any of you really confident that you are cis men but having partners touch your dick?