So there's this guy (who identifies as a pansexual) that I've known for almost 5 years but he went to the army as soon as I met him. I've had an attraction to him the second I met him. But I never pursued him because I was told that he was with someone. So he enlisted in the army and I didn't see him for almost 6 months. Then he comes back on leave and when we saw each other that's when he showed that he was interested in me. We exchanged numbers and from there it was an on and off thing.

He went back to where he was stationed but then I didn't see him for an entire year. Then he came back (looking so...let's just say he could have asked me to be his and I would've said yes, but that didn't happen) and we hung out a bit. A few days later we kissed and cuddled while watching Archer (favorite show) and again I didn't hear anything from him.

Then time moved on and almost a year later I'm in a relationship and then 8 months later I broke up with my ex only in the same week we started back talking. I told him of my break up and he promise to talk to me as much as he can. He said that he would, but talking to him is very difficult. Maybe it's because he's busy with work but he said that he doesn't like me as much as he use to and we have A LOT in common.

Honestly, I'm not entirely sure how to approach anything. He says he likes me but doesn't show it. I think being in the army is what's making life complicated. If anyone has any advice or had a similar situation advice is greatly appreciated. 🙂