This is my first time posting on r/askgaybros. I am a very recently turned 21 year old. I grew up in a Mexican Pentecostal household and my mother is a religious zealot. And my father is a machismo homophobe. My parents recently "discovered" through a church rumor grapevine that I am gay. My parents went ballistic, and after a series of lies to convince me to come home and talk to them, my father demanded my coming out. He proceeded to lambaste me with derogatory slurs and then hang up. Over the past few days they have sent various text messages explaining their disgust, shame and outrage.

My fathers most recent one included not ever wanting to see me again unless I leave to study out of state (the hard part is I live with my parents due to financial reasons). My mother has ceased near all communication with me and both parents claim that they are emotionally dead in side due to my actions.

I have been temporarily staying with my boyfriend who sadly is leaving in two days. I am at a loss as to what I should do. My boyfriend and I have been racking our brains to try and find a solution. Any help would be appreciated. I need my gay bros!