I would like first to thank anyone who is willing to read my story and offer helpful words. So I've got a small problem with meeting men. I have just moved to a new town in the past six months and I have yet to find a single person that I am truly interested in. Not only do I have problems approaching new guys that I find attractive, I seem to get extremely shy when I do actually have the balls to approach a guy. It's not that I am afraid the guy I am approaching will find me unattractive, I feel like it is a combination of me just being a straight up wuss, and me not knowing where or not the men I want to peruse just like straight up puss. I feel like I would be able to meet more men and become more "out there" if I was attending school or could legally drink at the downtown bars, but sadly I cannot attend school for another six months and nor the bars for another year and a half. Now, my question unto my fellow gaybros is how do I meet men in a small college town? When I do see a guy I find attractive, how do I approach/begin conversation with him? When I do start talking to a guy, how do I make it clear that I don't just want to sleep with him. Any tips would be much appreciated.