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Anyone else struggling to commit monogamously to one person after city hookup culture
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I’ve been in NYC for a number of years at this point and every time I’m getting close to someone that wants something monogamous I worry I won’t be able to commit physically. In theory it sounds great but I feel like I’ve become so used to hookup culture where we have the ability to hookup with such a wide array of guys on apps / sex parties etc. Add on the ruthless “onto the next” nature of gays in my city and I feel like I’ve completely separated my emotional and physical attachments.

It’s tough to meet a great guy but have monogamy being a strict requirement for them, and I’m questioning whether I need to reframe myself to better appreciate just one dick for life or start only looking for people who lean more open. I also feel like monogamy puts an insane amount of pressure on both guys to sexually fulfill their partner, resulting in an over-judgement of position preference, kinks, dick size, etc when going on dates.

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