So over the weekend I hooked up with an older daddy. Not sure if this helps but for context he was a 57 year old white guy and I’m a 29 year old Latino.

The hook up was really good and he was really verbal and energetic when he was giving me the work lol. So I’m getting dressed and we say good bye and as I’m about to head out he pats me down and asks if I knew where his phone. I said no he must have miss placed it and offered to call his phone so he could find it. He refused and just asked me to stick with him and follow him around until he finds it. I jokingly said I could take my clothes off again if he thinks I took it.

He said no and I just watched him look for it in the 2 rooms we were in. It’s been about 10-15 minutes looking for his phone and I suggested that I should call his phone because he is having trouble finding it. He still insists I needed to stay to be sure. I started getting annoyed and finally spoke up and said we are taking a lot of time and asked for his number so I can call it he reluctantly agreed. Lo and behold he finds it jumbled in with the clothes he took off when we got naked in his living room.

When I get home I’m a bit annoyed because this guy indirectly said I took his phone.

He messages me on Grindr and apologizes for what he did. I said it was ok but now he wants me to see him again and just left it on read.

To be fair to him we only chatted about hooking up and what we liked sexually prior to meeting that day but nothing else so we don’t know each other personally just more of a hookup thing. The easy thing to do would be to block/ignore him and move on but wanted to get everyone’s take on this see what you all think