I would like to hear from the men who used to engage with down low men. What was your experience once you stopped engaging with that type of guy?

Recently, a down low guy I met before, drove to place so we could fuck. He sent a message letting me know he's arrived. I told him come over, I'm ready. I realize ten minutes has gone by and he's not here. I'm concerned 😟 so, I reach out. He told me people were outside my place talking, so 🤷 he left. He didn't want to be seen walking to door.

As a feminine gay, I have compassion and empathy for those men that are just trying to figure it out. So I understand why he left, I only wish he let me know in advance before leaving.