sup boys, this question is focused but not exclusive of gay men.

I am turning 26 in some weeks and I know every single soul on earth is walking their own path at their very own pace, but nonetheless, I would like to convey with you all some ideal middle ground for realistic and (in a broad sense) fair expectations.

To me, by 30, this list should include: -NGM should ask their parents to keep saving his pocket EVER, let alone every due date -NGM should take irresponsible decisions thinking someone somewhere is going to come assist them last minute anyways -NGM should play with someone's feelings when they don't really know what they want. -NGM should be uncapable of showing a skill in which they can proof they have spent some effort and time -NGM should feel pride in being a bully -NGM should neglect their physical and mental health -NGM should be overcompensating to keep anyone in their lives /be liked, etc. -NGM should unnecessarily comment on anybody else, much less about their bodies -NGM should be unprofessional when earning the bread they put in their table -NGM should ever think they are beyond any other human -NGM should be so childish as to be unable to solve problems with a conversation -NGM should avoid healthy and mature confrontation when needed -NGM should feel scared of greeting someone with a firm handshake and a look in their eyes -NGM should judge/condition other people's choice to carry their sex health -NGM should lie to others and most importantly, to themselves -NGM should be unwilling to take care of others (to some extent), or teach to share that which he knows. -NGM should reject reality just because they refuse to believe something different -NGM should neglect their personal care, "maybe we can't always look perfect but at least we can always try to be clean"

I understand the world is in a complex situation right now, and trust me, I come from NO privileged background, but if conditions are set:

-NGM shouldn't have a good suit and pair of shoes (if you are lucky enough, I would expand this to an appropriate outfit for main occasions) -NGM should be living under their parents roof and with zero contribution to their home's income (again, this is ideal but there are many scenarios I can think of in which this may be much harder, I know we're all trying and it's enough ❤️).

And the most important one: -NGM, or straight, or women or whatever should keep playing billionaires' lawyer or think such a magnitude of wealth hoarding should be legal.

Am I forgetting anything?