Hey all. So I’ve been with my fiance for almost 10 years and we recently had a threesome - my first ever (he had them before while single). It has happened two more times (all three times within a month). My BF can separate sex from feelings and I thought I could too. I love my partner but I cannot stop obsessing over this guy we hooked up with. I find myself staring at his photos, finding reasons to talk to him, etc. He knows I am into him and doesn’t discourage it. Have any of you been in this situation? How did you handle it? I never thought I’d ever be into a “throuple” but now I can’t stop thinking about it, even though I know they hardly ever work out.