Hi everyone, so i am an 18 year old guy whos self locked in a chastity cage. Recently i decided to go permanent and only unlock for cleaning. Before this, I've had plenty of hook ups on grindr without my cage on. But recently, after I've started telling guys that i wear a cage/they see it on my album they rarely send me a message saying they arent into cages but usually they just block or ghost me. I dont think its an issue with the other parts of my body because they're usually super into me before seeing the cage. I was thinking about not telling the guys about my cage, and just showing up to the hookup with my cage, but i dont know how safe that will be. I wanted to ask any other locked guys what they think about this or get some opinions from non locked guys about locked guys like me or what they'd do if a hook up was wearing a cage. Thanks!