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25M here and I can say that frontal lobe development is amazing.
When I was 17-20 I didn’t have any gay friends and was very insecure to the point I would ask people how attractive they found me or hookup with guys to feel attractive. I was lucky enough to travel to Europe and Asia and experience cultures and different gay life. I remember the memories of me going to gay bars and wanting to meet handsome guys (which I did). Never once did that bring me true happiness.
21-23 I started to develop myself in my gay scene near my home. I made a group of gay friends for some time. Many were fun but also fly by friends. I felt I needed to act a certain way around certain people which was not my vibe. I became more muscular and grew into my face.
24 I had realized having friends based on interests and principles is more fulfilling. I don’t do drugs (besides a drink once in awhile or a cigarette when I’m drinking or stressed). Gays who do coke, G, meth, or anything hardcore are not in my circle and never have been.
25 I now realize how much I don’t care to go out or hookup. I have traveled, partied and got to enjoy my fruits of my youth with people who were in it for the short or long run. I care more about saving money and finding a way I can move out of my parents by my late 20s while being very financially independent and stable.
Maybe this is just growing up? All I can say is I don’t care anymore and it feels fantastic.
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