A Grindr hookup asked me when I got to his place whether I kissed.

I said not right away. I mean, I don't kiss someone I just met.

Without even considering the fact that it took me over an hour and two city buses to get to him, he said not kissing is a deal breaker for him and said I can go.

I was pissed. Kissing is that big a deal in a casual hookup? If I kissed strangers, there would be no need to hookup because I'd never get off the bus!

Doesn't it seem weird if someone won't hookup with you unless you promise you will kiss them? It makes me think: whats wrong with your mouth? Why can't we play it by ear?

Enlighten me, people!