So im a femboy and a bottom .I've been nervous to hookup with dudes bc im a bit chubby im lil squishy and I don't really fit with those twinky ideals but I was suprised after exchanging pictures and hooking up irl how many dudes just don't seem to have an issue and alot enjoy it like holding me and squeezing me and most don't think I look that fat tho my bmi days im fat for my height and weight and I have a decent amount of squish in the chest abd belly but I'd look thin with a hoodie or baggy shirt on but my face looks slender and my arms aren't huge but my legs are thicker like idk if this is all relevant but I thought I was horribly obese and felt gross