For years me 36 and this daddy over 60 have been sending messages to each other on Grindr. We generally catch each other on the grid when we are visiting the same region on break or holiday where we both have connections and roots, and it happened again now over the Christmas period. Incidentally, we live in the same city, although in neighbourhoods on opposite ends of the city so there is some distance but meeting is achievable. He is hot - daddy looks, athletic build, maturely minded, texts in full sentences, attractive member, top, discreet. I am - single, available, lonely, horny, interested. He is also married, to a woman, and as far as I can tell has grown children. For the longest time I have never been into partnered guys, couples or married men, something about hanging out for the prospect of intimacy with an involved person I find particularly unattractive and not at all conducive to friendly social relations for the short or medium term. Obviously with this I am not interested in long-term prospects, but am concerned about long-term implications if his family were to discover his shenanigans or worse shenanigans by me (my identity) with him if it is the case that he is not being completely honest with me about the openness or status of his marriage and then there is some kind of retaliation. But he has been onto me, and I am attracted, and the fact that this has been going on so long makes me even more attracted, and him continuously expressing interest adds even more to my attraction. The question here is - how do I navigate the married and involved men of Grindr, and how do I navigate the scenario above? Do I set aside my feelings for partnered men? Is there real life experience out there that can tell me if this is a bad idea to encourage this connection?