I recently opened up Grindr and I’m ngl I’m surprised with how much I struggle getting attention.

I’m not trying to brag but I’ve always been told I was conventionally attractive. I’m 23, 6ft4, have green eyes, a strong jawline etc. I’m not saying that I’m hot or anything and I’m also skinny but I get a lot of compliments on my looks on a daily basis.

After opening Grindr. I’ve only interacted with like 20 guys in the past 4 days. That’s a lot to me but I’ve always heard the stories about the guys who receive nonstop notifications and have to delete the app because of all of the attention they’re getting and I’m sitting here thinking if there’s something wrong with me. Most guys I’m talking with will also sometimes bail on me or ghost the conversation even though they’re the ones who hmu. I don’t know if it plays a factor but I also live in a city with a 300k population so I don’t know if that plays a role.

I just wanna know what should be the “expected” for someone on Grindr? Am I doing something wrong here or is it a matter of most getting similar amounts of attention and me just self centring the issue?