Yesterday, iI was on my way to meet a guy and I was in traffic. The first thing that caused me to not be in the mood was his response when I told him i was traffic.

When I told him I was a little late cuz i was in traffic he said “it’s stressing me out and you seem so far away” when i told him i was 10 minutes away and then he goes on to say “i showered, and got ready for you and you’re not here” to which I assertively responded “we can reschedule if it’s an issue” because im not gonna be sorry that there’s traffic especially for a Grindr hookup. He then said “don’t take it personally. It’s just a comment” but there was no need for that comment but i let that pass

Then when I got to the house, all ima say is that he looked better in the pics than in person. We took our clothes off, made out, gave each other head but the chemistry wasn’t there at that point. We tried 3 different positions but i just couldn’t bring myself to penetrate him to where I said “I think ima leave” so i put my stuff on, left, and he ended up blocking me but I didn’t care.

Know your worth dudes. Your boundaries are important too. You don’t owe anyone a damn thing