I am in my 50s and I had my first handjob from another guy and I ended up leaving midway through the handjob. While it felt good at first to be touched there by someone else, the pleasure sure didn't last very long. This guy's hands felt like sandpaper on my cock (which is sensitive anyway) as he stroked me off. I simply asked him if he could lotion his hands or use plenty of lotion on my cock to offset the scratchy feeling on my cock. He refused to lotion his hands or lotion my cock, he said if I didn't like it the way he was doing it I could leave, and that is what happened. Now I am kind of leery about getting another handjob from a guy and wondering if his hands were going to be like sandpaper or if they were going to be soft. I ended up with a moderate friction burn on my cock as a result of the horrible experience. Advice please for the future.