I have many examples but I wanna talk about the latest one. A coworker who identifies as a Trumper, man of GOD, alpha/dom and Southern Gentleman has been low-key bullying me since he started working here early summer. I'm skinny-fat and a little fruity. Bern calling me a f-gg-t, h-m- and every single gay-related pejorative term out there. I don't want HR to get involved because I don't want the bosses to think of me as fussy.

My friends (5 1) picked me up on a Friday to go camping. Three are gay guys.

Two of them recognized him. He tried to hook up with the first friend, maybe Grindr, I'm not sure but he gave him the ick, so, he didn't proceed.

The other one wasn't so lucky. He's a vers bottom. The first time, my friend bottomed. The dude was lousy. Second time, the dude asked my friend to top. My friend was shocked. He told him he was a strict top.

He cried after he jizzed, my friend froze and then tried to console him with a hug. He punched him and said, “don't ever touch me, f-gg-t.”

This dude has questionable hygiene, dresses like crap, toxic and a raging misogynist.

I had similar stories. My question is why are closeted dudes super toxic and scummy than the open-gay guys?

Most of the gay guys I've encountered really respect and love to spend time with women.

Why do ya'll think this is? Lemme know if you need a TL; DR?