Just as the title says, I’m seeking advice about being a better ass fucker. Mostly looking for tips for the first 10 minutes or so with warming her up to make it more enjoyable, sooner. I think all the effort to get started is discouraging for her.

I’ve given and received anal probably 20ish times each but never on a regular basis so I don’t think I’ve learned much. I don’t have a huge dick, but it’s pretty thick which is the biggest hurdle.

Currently, she can ride the first few inches and reaches back to jerk the rest. It’s actually pretty awesome but want to have the option to pound away at some point.

Is it best to just give a couple inches and frequently go fully out and back in to relax the sphincter? Then gradually give more until it’s all the way in? Stuff along these lines would help.

I’ve tried warming her up with 2 dildos, one small then medium. She tends to get impatient and doesn’t care for the feeling of the dildos.