Usually when I have sex, with foreplay and all, I cum within 10 mins. And once I cum, my refractory period is super long, like at least an hour to recharge. This is cool for quick encounters. But I hear about tops who have sex for 30 mins-1 hr straight without cumming. What has worked for me in the past is an SSRI medication. With the med, it takes long for me to cum and even after I cum, my refractory period is very short and I can go again in 15 mins. But I don’t wanna be dependent on this med and frankly trying to avoid taking it altogether. I always feel guilty when a btm takes all that time to prepare and they expect a long session only for me to cum in 10 mins. Any tips for how to prolong the time before ejaculation? Thanks a lot for any advice!