A cute tall Latino guy slid in my dms on Grindr and we started chatting. I usually ask early on what his hiv status is so I asked and he avoided the question and diverted the attention to his cock size (8 inches). I told him he didn’t answer my question and he told me it’s personal and that we haven’t met yet. Im assuming he’s likely hiv and doesn’t want to be stigmatized which I am very empathetic to because I wouldn’t want that judgment if I were positive either. However, I feel like you should be forthcoming if you’re gonna get to know/meet someone. I see both sides of the argument. How do you guys feel about it? Is it possible he’s negative and just doesn’t want to tell me? I guess time will tell.

EDIT: For anyone wondering, I’m on prep and doxy. I also am ok with meeting people who are undetectable but he hasn’t mentioned that.