This week I hooked up with a guy that was “too big.” I’m talking down there…

I knew he was packing, but beyond the 8.5” length which I was aware of, the girth and curvature was something else. When he went inside me while topping, he didn’t even hit any spots - I was just kind of uhhh. Didn’t feel pain but didn’t feel great, either. I couldn’t even figure out what to tell him to do to make it a better experience!! Tips?

I remember taking a ten-incher over a decade ago and having a similar experience.

Is this a universal experience for folks bottoming for girthy and hung dudes? Or am I the exception here?

Girthy hung tops - do you have trouble satisfying your bottoms?

I’ve always been a bit of a size queen, but realize my definition of a “husband D” is probably 7-8 inches with medium girth, because he can hit everything when I’m bottoming; and I can consume all the way down my throat the shaft in oral.