For context im 21 bi guy and when i go on Grindr i message guys and stuff. Ngl i wasnt looking for relationship on there was chatting to people and when i said i wasnt fit and i had an average penis size they find it a huge turn off. I feel crazy cause like id say in decent looking and like i though physique and cock size didnt matter. I mean i feel like i do need to get back into fitness since ive finally recovered but its gonna take time and cock size i cant do nothing much about. It feels like everyone got crazy expectation from me and i bad about it. My question is how do you find genuine people and what do you guys look for im a guy?