One of my issues with a lot of attractive gay men is they make looking good their personality trait or they lead with it. Either based off how they dress, how revealing their bodies are on social media, or the excessive care of their face .

Im considered to be attractive by a lot of people’s standards but I’ve always been turned off by guys who try so hard to push how attractive they are. I’ve always said my looks are the most uninteresting thing about me, and I tend to gravitate towards men who are physically attractive but either don’t care, don’t realize, or have a man attractive personality to match. Controversial take I’ve found straight guys to exhibit this more than gays, hence one of the reason I’m attracted to str8 guys more.

What are your thoughts?