Following on from my post about therapy not really helping, I started to brainstorm some ideas of things I can try to break out from the chronic single cycle I am in. Most of these ideas are based on what appears to attract/work on others, from Reddit and otherwise, and I'm curious to get thoughts.

I have been told before that I am 'put together' and likely causing insecurities in other men, so these are some things I can do to get around this.

1. Wear a ring. If I look unavailable/unattainable, it may sink into their head that I am what they perceive (i.e. 'someone like you should be taken'), then I can just explain a few months later - if they last - its a fitness ring?
2. Open relationship vs single status. Claim I'm in an open relationship so that at least dudes feel safe enough to return for sex with no obligation for more.
3. Go back to being top only, and maybe have some other sexual limitations like don't kiss until the 5th time or something, and act emotionally unavailable.

Somehow being honest, open, emotionally available and 'put together' doesn't seem to be attracting anything my way (either apps or in person), so maybe its time to act 'damaged' and change things up?