Since the dawn of time people bash on masc4masc gays, consider them problematic, and tell them that they should like femininity in men. Well that’s not what I think I am so I don’t care for that discourse.

What I identify with is androsexuality. I like masculinity, not necessarily just men. I’m attracted to masculine men and masculine women. It just so happens that the masculine women I meet are lesbians. I was really into my high school girlfriend, she wasn’t a tomboy (think Kristen Stewart in twilight but with big boobs) but had a very masculine personality, we broke up when she came out as a lesbian. And so I basically only hookup with guys now.

But very often the guys attracted to me are more feminine which is such a turn off but if I say that’s why I don’t wanna date or hookup with someone I’m told i have internalized homophobia, etc.

What do you guys think? Should I just tell people “I’m androsexual, let me like what I like” or should I just get used to hearing the same BS people tell masc4masc guys?