I am naturally a bottom, like very love hardcore Dom/sub, bdsm, fisting all that. I have been talking to this guy and when we met he was a total Dom masc top, but now he is slowly becoming more and more verse. Now he identifies as verse (not even verse top). I don’t enjoy topping and get no pleasure. I also tend to be very turned off by guys wanting to bottom because I know it’s something that’s unmatched. I think I honestly think every guy who wants to bottom deep down and that’s their main desire. I have a hard time not seeing it that way. But I can’t just break it off with a guy because he bottoms. There also seem to be few guys who never want to bottom at any point.

It really bothers me but I don’t want to feel this bothered. I don’t even know if it’s something I could talk about with a therapist since it’s so specific.

Like I’m in pain from the thought that I am loosing attraction to him. But I can’t get the image of him being a submissive bottom and I think when a guy enjoys that partially it’s only a matter of time till he is a sub bottom primarily.