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Is it too late?
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At the end of August of this year, me (M18) and my friends went on a trip together. There we met this guy (M17) who was openly gay and became friends. Iā€™m bi, but I hadnā€™t came out at the time to anyone (I came out to my friends a month later). I really liked him (heā€™s so cute, coolā€¦), but I didnā€™t do anything about it because, first, I was still in the closet; second, I havenā€™t ever told a guy I like him, let alone be with one; third, he was an spontaneous friend me and my friends made on a trip, so I thought it could be ackward; and fourth and most important, he was talking to a guy he told us he liked. He shared his instagram, and now we follow each other. We all live in the same city. I hadnā€™t talked to him since the trip (I donā€™t usually talk to people in general online).

He hasnā€™t posted anything about that guy, so since he posts when he hangs out with his friends pretty often, itā€™s possible that he couldnā€™t get anywhere with him. I became a bit more confident about my sexuality since I came out to my friends, and it's been quite a while since I've been wanting to have something with a guy. I could send him a dm at any time, but thatā€™s where we get to the question in the title. Is it too late to try to reach out? Did I lose my opportunity? Should I move on? I'm scared of seeming creepy.

(Clarification: In the country where we live, the age of consent is 16, so it would be completely legal. And Iā€™m not gonna send him ā€œwanna fck?ā€ and a dick pic or anything like that. Please no.)

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