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At the end of August of this year, me (M18) and my friends went on a trip together. There we met this guy (M17) who was openly gay and became friends. Iām bi, but I hadnāt came out at the time to anyone (I came out to my friends a month later). I really liked him (heās so cute, coolā¦), but I didnāt do anything about it because, first, I was still in the closet; second, I havenāt ever told a guy I like him, let alone be with one; third, he was an spontaneous friend me and my friends made on a trip, so I thought it could be ackward; and fourth and most important, he was talking to a guy he told us he liked. He shared his instagram, and now we follow each other. We all live in the same city. I hadnāt talked to him since the trip (I donāt usually talk to people in general online).
He hasnāt posted anything about that guy, so since he posts when he hangs out with his friends pretty often, itās possible that he couldnāt get anywhere with him. I became a bit more confident about my sexuality since I came out to my friends, and it's been quite a while since I've been wanting to have something with a guy. I could send him a dm at any time, but thatās where we get to the question in the title. Is it too late to try to reach out? Did I lose my opportunity? Should I move on? I'm scared of seeming creepy.
(Clarification: In the country where we live, the age of consent is 16, so it would be completely legal. And Iām not gonna send him āwanna fck?ā and a dick pic or anything like that. Please no.)
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