Met this beautiful twink-ish boy on Sunday. Completely my type. We kissed all over, did other stuff, pillow talked, and the talking got deep and we were both being pretty open and vulnerable with each other.

I’m blocked by him on Grindr now. My brain is telling me I need to know why. I want to create a new account and ask him why, but that seems crazy to me. But I’m going crazy not knowing. In my view, the experience was better than we talked about. There were no bad surprises in bed or awkward moments, I thought we really clicked. I drove him to the subway station after and the conversation was very chill and easy and fun.

We both messaged “night handsome” or smt to that effect before going to bed, and then today, blocked.

Has anyone else experienced this? How do you go from sharing an experience like that with a clearly openly gay guy to being blocked? And I know the answer is not to create a new Grindr acc and message him, but please help me remember why that is a bad idea. I’m spiralling here. The next square isn’t as cute as this boy was :(