My partner and I have been exploring an open relationships for a few years now and are still struggling to find the sweet spot (no pun intended 😈). We have an amazing relationship and a super spicy sex life already. I’m more inclined for open play than he is, but it’s not like he isn’t willing - we’ve had many encounters together and separately that have been great. Tension comes when one person meets someone when the other didn’t/couldn’t find someone interesting, also around frequency of meeting other people. We’re both great at communicating and are emotionally intelligent so I’m confident we’ll find something that works for both of us, but mostly curious how other couples navigate this.