I hooked up with a guy on Grindr for a mutual jerk off sesh. He’s cute we hit it off and started stroking each other’s hard dicks. At some point he told me he wanted me to rub my cock against his ass crack. I was fine with this. I immediately could tell he wanted more but I told him I didn’t want to top. He said OK, and started to say things like we were simulating sex. It was kinda hot. “Harder”, “It feels so good when you pound me”. However he started saying things that turned me off. The worst for me was “No! Don’t force me to take your cock Daddy!” And then he’d look me in the eyes and whisper “I want you to rape me”. I was like WTF.

I lost my hard on and told him I don’t think this is going to work out. He was flustered and seemed angry I didn’t want to finish. After I left (didn’t cum), he apologized by txt. He went on to explain he thought we had good chemistry and was hoping id help him with his rape fantasy. He went into detail on the setup - I’d find him sleeping in bed - on how rough he could take it, and wanting me to inflict pain sexually with slapping and choking. He basically said that he wants it so rough that “even if [he is] bleeding, don’t stop until [he] says the safe word.” Hmmm….He’s super cute though and he still msgs me once in a while to see if I’ll change my mind. Haven’t said no but not sure if this is for me.