Here’s what I mean…so I’m 27, and have reached a point where I’m just myself and don’t really care. It’s very freeing, makes things way more fun, it’s never awkward for me and I can talk about anything with anyone. Some people also have that ability and some people don’t.

For example I met up with a guy the other day who right away we clicked and were able to talk about ourselves without it being awkward and anxiety filled and it made things more comfortable, more fun and just much better chemistry.

Then there are guys who are just incredibly awkward and you don’t know if it’s you or them and it’s like no matter what you say it’s always one word responses, no definitive answers when things like “do you want to try this” or something, you get the idea.

At what age would you say this kind of interaction dies out? Where the majority of people you meet at this age will know themselves and not be so self conscious and awkward. Is there an age where that goes away? Is it just person by person always? It’s tough too because through a phone most people seem social and comfortable but then you meet them and it’s terribly awkward