So I've been having this happen to me and I'm curious of any of you ever have either.

There's a dude in my area that's been wanting me to blow him since we were 19 and I'm turning 29.

For years he's been unfriending me and refrending me because he wants me to suck his dick but he's scared anyone will know that I even contact him.

I told him just go and Grindr but he says he doesn't trust the apps.

He's also sent me videos of other guys sucking his dick because he really wants me to. And he doesn't seem to want to be fwb.

I can definitely tell I'm being played with and I'm mostly playing along so I can see what pictures and videos he'll send me.

Is this normal for guys who are DL? I thought most if they want sex they just go to Grindr and get it there. The dude is kind of attractive with a six pack he could get a dude at a club. But he seems horrified that anyone would even associate him with someone who's gay.

I understand the whole "My family would hate that I'm gay and that it can ruin my life kind of thing" or if he just wants his dick sucked by a dude but I'm leaning towards him being bi because he also fronts really hard that he is straight.

I just don't get why he wants my mouth and possibly even ass when he could find 50 other guys on Grindr.