Hi there. I (20m) have a friend (21m), we do usual friend-stuff together like gaming and clubbing but occasionally end up in bed together. The last time this happened was two months or so ago. We were both pretty drunk and had some fun. The day after I wanted to talk with him about how he felt, what we could do differently and stuff... He completely ignored me and kept doing stuff on his fucking phone instead of just having a conversation with me, which I was pretty upset about. He said he doesn't wanna talk about this kind of stuff (It wasn't the first time that happened). I think he's got internalised homophobia (he's bi). I still can't help but feeling used. Having sex only when he is horny in the moment but being denied to have a normal conversation about it just isn't what I want. I am struggling a bit here because I really like him and think of him as a good friend, but that's a point where I'm not really willing to compromise. This has been occupying my mind lately. Should I say I don't wanna have sex with him, even though I want, I just want him to act like a normal human being?