I have delayed ejaculation thanks to my antidepressant, changing meds only improved my libido, but this side effect still sticks around. There's also ADHD that makes me lose focus on my arousal during sex, both make reaching orgasm really hard at times. Basically, I just want to tell guys that I have this condition, and that it would help if they don't need their partners to cum as well, but at the same time, still want to help and enjoy seeing their partners cum. If they keep checking or looking forward to me cumming, that's a pressure that usually just cause the opposite reaction, I can't cum under such pressure lol. I met a guy who was looking forward to me cumming, and I only told him mid session that it was gonna be harder for me to cum if he anticipates it like that, so he toned down his anticipation and just helped me in some way. Oddly, I can't remember how I cummed, but I certainly did 😅

I want to repeat communicating that before the session, and I'm just conflicted between telling them I want them to care, but not too much, about me cumming, cause it might not happen. Is that it? Do you have other ways?