So i live(with my parents) in a small town in a homophobic country..I dont expect any physical harm if people knew, just “bad reputation” Anyway, few years ago i was dumb enough to hook up with men from my town, now that i work in a respectable place, i cant really do that anymore..and i try to explain that to these previous hook ups when they ask about meeting again. The problem is i stumble across them on the streets and we exchange looks. Dont know why, but i’m paranoid that maybe one time they would expose me if they saw me with my friends or family, even though its hardly going to happen as I am the one who knows where they live(hook ups were at their place), but i still have some thought that it might happen What do you think? Any advice?