So, I’m in a new relationship with a really great guy. Great connection, strong chemistry, so far really great intimacy. But, we’re both tops.

Hasn’t been an issue yet, but I want to be sure we keep things going down a good path. We’re both open to exploring our versatility, and for now, we are monogamous and exclusive. He’s quite a bit more vanilla than I am, but i know there’s still plenty of fun we can be having together. So, I have a few questions:

1. Tops who have become verse: how did you do it, what were some of your ways of opening up to bottoming? I haven’t bottomed in over a decade, so I’m real dumb in this department.

2. Are there any toys that could be fun for us to experience together that don’t involved penetrative-play for either of us?

(Also, pardon the ignorance of this post. This is my first time posting on Reddit.)