I’m a fem guy(40yr) in relationship with a bisexual guy(43yr); has been together over 10 years. Although we are different in ethics, in culture or in sexual orientation; I feel we are very matching in most of ways. Generally he is very supportive to my little hobbies on dressing cutie clothing😄. While getting older, I feel the change in his attitude. Maybe it’s because I don’t look like my age but he looks mature…?

Anyway, when we are going on a date, those outfits he said ‘hot and gorgeous’ at home, became ‘ugly and weird’ on streets🫤. He will call off a date if i don’t change to some low-key plainclothes, and needless to say that will ruin the whole schedule and our mood for days😮‍💨.

Ever talked about this with my other gay friends, and they think my bf is just protective or insecure and I shall not overthink it. I don’t have other bi friends to ask the opinions for…any thoughts or advices are appreciated😇.

PS. Eng is not my native language, hopefully this post is nothing inappropriate in expression.