Hey guys, so this is a bit hard for me to talk to anyone about that, so I thought I could try my luck here. I'm 25, just back on the market after a 4 years relationship, my only long relationship.

As a start, I am top. For a few months now, I've experienced multiple times erectile dysfunction.. Sometimes, it'll work fine, sometimes, more or less fine, sometimes not. At the end of the relationship with my ex, we opened up (I asked for it) the relationship for 3/4 months, I've had hookups, during which, most of the time, I've struggled to stay hard. I never had a problem staying stiff with my ex. I am over him, soon moving out to my own place (finally, after 3 months). So here are my thoughts about that:

• I've always been more or less addicted to porn and wondering if that could play a part in it.
• Could it be that, even if I think I am, I'm still not over my ex?
• I'm a smoker, I know that could also play a part in it 🤷‍♂️
• Could it be any kind of psychological blocking for x or y reasons?

Basically, I wanna know what y'all think. I'm starting to get really concerned.. More physical or psychological blocking? Should I wait until I move to be sure that it isn't related to my ex? I don't really wanna go see my GP for that. Also, I'm only 25, I don't wanna get hooked on Viagra or shit alike to be able to get hard. I'm back at dating, and it can be really frustrating not to be able to drill my bottoms as I'd like to 🙃