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So I'm a black guy with an average sized penis, and as we all know BBC stands for Big Black Cock. For one I'm not big so it's annoying to be called something I'm not but also if I were a white guy with the exact same dick just in a different color you wouldn't have any interest.
People see my skin color and see that I'm not tiny and immediately wanna start with the race play and shit and I hate it. And I'll often say to people trying to trade or sext or something with me that I don't like our color being mentioned when we're different races because it feels like me fetishized.
Like I love being praised but I like being praised for things that are true about me and not based in racism. I know I'm not the only black guy who feels like this but I also know PLENTY of black guys, especially the ones with actual BBCs don't mind and might even encourage or want that to be referenced that way.
It just sucks personally when a white dude will ask "Are you a bbc?" As if it's a thing you can be and not just something you have. Idk maybe I'm being overzealous about this, but it really pisses me off.
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