So basically there’s this guy that I matched with on tinder like maybe two years ago? And at the beginning we were texting and what not but then as I got to know them over text they told me in the end they weren’t looking for a relationship and that’s fine cause even after we still continued to text but lowkey I kinda liked him. At some point I did make it known that I liked this person but then they rejected me cause they wanted to work on themselves and again wasn’t looking for anything. Ever since then texting was just on and off and it was platonic and I never met this person irl because there was no reason to go on a date even tho I tried to ask to hang out as friends but it never worked out. Fast forward to like a year later, they would swipe up on my Instagram stories from time to time to either compliment something on my story or tease me in any way or try to get me annoyed or and or something idk. Then at some point they wanted some advice from me on clothes to sort of pick an outfit for when he goes to meet this guy he’s been talking to and obviously out of curiosity I ask about the guy and he tells me that this guy is literally his type which after he explained it… I realized he was describing me and in my head I’m like “THATS LITERALLY ME LIKE I’m RIGHT HERE” so I got confused tbh even tho I remembered that at the beginning he would call me cute when we first matched. Anyways then sometime this summer he asked if I can stop commenting on his ig posts because he didn’t want his semi committed man to see it because he didn’t want that person to get the wrong impression and he told me that his friends been asking him who’s this guy commenting on his posts. Anyways I got annoyed so I just said ya sure whatever because I wasn’t even trying to flirt in the comments. Anyways after that he sort of just stopped swiping up on my stories here and there. UNTILLL SEPTEMBER when he swiped on my story to compliment my outfit and what not. After some time there was an event that i went to and mind you i never met this guy and i matched with him two years ago!! THEN HE WAS AT THE EVENT, and he recognized me instantly and smiled at me. During the middle of the event he came up to me and hugged me and was talking to me. Afterwards I decided to leave early and I waved bye but he came up to me to give me a hug goodbye and then I left. The next day he dm me on IG saying thanks for coming to the event. And that’s where we are now lol.