I have 2 friends who have said they're open to experimenting with me.
Friend #1 (let's call him "Rhett") is 20 years old. He admits he's "straight-ish" and loves when I flirt with him and tell him my turn-ons (he's said this to me directly). He's been single for nearly 2 years, and broke up with his ex-girlfriend in January 2023. He loves that I'm in a poly relationship. I've brought up the idea of us dating, and it's the only time he doesn't say anything - although he did say he's open to "just being friends". He's also said he gets turned on by doing 69 with another guy.
Devil's Advocate: You never know - anything could happen. Mentalities and feelings might evolve and develop. Rhett could one day be open to dating me, but just being friends with him is perfectly fine, even if we're still friends forever.
Both #1 and #2 both live in Kansas. Both Jack and Rhett want to meet me in person and hang out for 1 week at a time, which would be great. And building an even deeper connection with both of them (whether friendship or otherwise) will be amazing. It's actually the best for me, since I'm in a small Conservative town, don't drive and I'm a homebody, so it's nice to spend time with two friends who care about me.
By the way (little side question) - What are some activities and questions can we do while they're here with me near the Jersey Shore region? They want me to book their trips (and I used to work as a travel agent in 2022, which I forgot to mention to them), so I felt it necessary to have Jack visit first, and then Rhett would visit a few weeks after Jack comes back. Quality time & being face-to-face (and not constantly being on a cell phone) are important to me.
Devil's Advocate: They could be just fully straight and sexually fluid? Or could they be DL or bi and just not ready to admit it to themselves yet? Lines have blurred both of them, and even I have questions myself, and don't know how I'd phrase my questions for them, so I haven't asked yet.
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