I'm 28, and my boyfriend is 23. (Maybe it's an age thing, or maybe it's a cultural difference since he's Russian and I'm American?)

My bf lives in Russia and he wants me to find muscular men for him to be friends with.

I think his obsession with gym bodies being around him is very strange. I don't know anyone with a muscular body personally, so I've started Googling photos of athletes, bodybuilders, weightlifters and muscular men to send him.

He's said if I don't find muscular friends for him, he's breaking up with me....

I don't like society's obsession with muscular bodies - it creates addiction to steroids and unrealistic beauty standards from men and women in today's generation.

I've become turned off with dating masculine men, because they're toxic and emotionally unavailable. I'm embracing dating feminine men because they open up and are vulnerable and sensitive, which is what I need in an ideal partner.

However, my boyfriend barking an order to make me bring him muscular friends is..... controlling and - I'm honestly speechless. Also, he's sent me animated drawings of muscular men - similar to The Hulk, but I don't know where he got them from (and I don't like animated shows; I'm 28 years old).