Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years now. since the beginning he was never really interested in sex. early on he told me he doesn’t like to bottom but always promised we would. never did. i confronted him angry about it was and he sort of flipped out and said it’s never gonna happen. now if i ever bring it up he’ll sometimes say no i’ll bottom if you want which i’m not gonna do and he knows that so it feels like a set up.

also he’s really not into anything doesn’t like it if i touch his nipples or his ears and if i get near his butt he flips out. i can touch his dick obviously but most of the time he always removes my hand or has an excuse like we have plans or he’s too tired or he isn’t in the mood. i’m always the one to initiate sex he almost never does. and i hate it. it makes me feel like he doesn’t wanna touch me but then he always says i’m so sexy and loves me and my body.

a year ago i caught him messaging people online anonymously pretending to be a mistress and getting off to them. it was a huge huge fight and we resolved and and to my knowledge he hasn’t dont it since even though i’m getting that feeling again.

we haven’t done anything at all in over a month. usually we’ll do other forms of sex oral (only me to him) or just handjobs like once a week twice if i’m lucky but we haven’t even done that. i’ve told him about this a hundred times so idk