Facts about me. I am:

1. Polyamorous (with 3 long-distance boyfriends - they live in Seattle, Russia, and Las Vegas). I live in New Jersey, in 2025. I'm getting my own place in Nevada first. I'm also a notorious homebody.
2. Pansexual (A lot of my exes had problems with it; they'd say things like, "It'd be weird if you dated a girl" - which I found very problematic, considering the ex who told me that, was in court-ordered anger management for violence toward his mother; we were teenagers at the time. He was 17 and I was 16, turning 17, a few months from then. I'm 28 now & me reconnecting with him 5 or 6 years ago was a disaster - he's also told me very criminal things he's done that would get him a 20 year prison sentence. He's the ex from hell, so I'm moving on with this list, so y'all can get to know me);
3. 28 years old (I just turned 28 last month).
4. Moving to Nevada in 2025. Preferably, I need someone who's fine with moving to NV with me, or I'll help them until they're ready to move. I moved out my mom's house last year with $3 to my name, and 10 months later, I'm still making it on my own. I just got hired as a life insurance agent (after 10 months of unemployment and way too many interviews, applications, and the like). So I'm very understanding of a potential boyfriend's financial situation.
5. A Democrat (I don't vote, but I'm Democratic leaning). I filled out a voters' card in December 2017, and my mom said, "Now you'll be eligible for jury duty!" (Is she lying about that? I've never been subpoenaed for jury duty, and I filled it out at 21 or 22 years old, so I don't know if that's true). I mailed back the voters' card, and have never followed up on that, ever since. The only thing I remember writing on it was that I'm a Democrat and that "today's date" was sometime in 2017 (I can't remember the day or month it was).
6. An atheist (I grew up between New Jersey, FL and GA, raised by my mom's family, of Conservative & fundamentalist Christians (who pretend they're Democrats). I always say, "The only thing I brought back from the South, was the accent." (My Georgia accent jumps out when I talk too fast).

Sidebar: I hate the South, but hot men down South can ride my cock whenever they want.

1. Black. You'd be surprised at the amount of guys I spoke to on Grindr who've either said racist statements on our first conversation, or directly turned me down because I'm black. White guys have done it & so has one Asian guy. Which is a shame, since my type is white, Latin and Asian guys. I stopped using Grindr in July 2021.

2. A vers top (I adjust, depending on what my boyfriends like; I'm currently dating 2 bottoms and 1 top). I'd love to date a power bottom.

Sidebar: One of my boyfriends is from Russia, but he's been looking for men to pay for him to emigrate overseas to live with them and date them - but you're dating me, and you claim you love me, so WHY are you looking for other men overseas? That's my current thought process, regarding him. I was very shocked to hear him say he's "been crying all day" because no foreign men will respond to his requests (but because I just started my insurance job, I guess that's not good enough? He's been advertising for wealthy men to sponsor his immigration to their country since June, and I only learned this last week).

1. Into metaphysics. I love psychic mediums, tarot, numerology, etc. I think I still have my old numerology notebooks from when I was a teenager, doing my friends' and exes numerology charts after school. And one of my best friends is a medium herself (she's also a narcissist, but she's in California, so I talk to her as often as possible).

2. Anti-censorship - I curse like a sailor, but I watch my mouth around people who tell me "Watch your language!" It annoyed me as a kid, but I'm fine with it now.

3. Full of goals - I'm working on becoming an accredited & full-time genealogist (I'm using my insurance job to get to my genealogical career). However, if it works out, I'm also looking to be a songwriter & historical biographer. And possibly a music critic - I haven't decided on the critic thing, yet.

4. Vulnerable - My biggest deal breaker is emotionally unavailable men. And ended up dating one (I'd call it karma, but I don't know).

5. Musically - stuck in the 2000s (I know. Feel free to throw tomatoes. I still listen to the music I grew up on, with occasional new artists that impress me. I'm a huge Olivia Rodrigo fan; Shawn Mendes and Zayn are my 2 favorite singers of today's generation; I also happen to have a huge crush on Conan Gray - not only can he sing his ass off (he's extremely underrated), but he's easy on the eyes too & such a great songwriter, live performer & dancer; MGK is my favorite rapper (I've been a fan since 2010); Sia is my idol (I've been a fan of her since 2009; I did a school report about her, and nobody knew who she was; she got famous 2 years later, and it was the best thing ever). But if I could date any musician, I prefer twinks, so Troye Sivan is definitely my go-to twink crush (it used to be Olly Alexander, until he said recently he has a boyfriend, so I've got to go with Troye now). Although, I wonder if Troye's fine with me being an atheist (he is Jewish, which I like about him). Troye's humble, and I love his sense of humor. And he looked stunning in the "One of Your Girls" video - I didn't recognize him until he did an interview mentioning it was him! Definitely the most shocking moment of my life, for sure (in a good way).

6. Able to only watch vintage movies - Seriously. I've never known why, but I can only watch movies from the 1930s through the '60s. I rarely watch today's movies, except if my faves, Timothee Chalamet and Tom Holland, are in something. On the vintage TV end of things, Lucille Ball is my idol. We're way too similar. One of my boyfriends, who's Latin himself, reminds me of Desi Arnaz's polarizing personality (Perhaps it's ironic that my second celebrity crush, at 9 years old, was Desi?).

7. Tolerant of porn and sex-work - I love porn & see no problem with it (for me specifically). Out of the 4 of us (myself and my 3 bfs), I'm the only one who watches porn. So it'd be nice to have a boyfriend to watch porn with, sometime!

8. Not into older men. Except Dermot O'Leary (Englishmen are my weakness. What's a man to do when he sees a gorgeous Brit?). So, as I said, age-appropriate inquiries only.

My stats:

1. 5'2 inches.
2. 130lbs.
3. Average physique. I plan on getting back into working out (I worked out from 2019-2022, and haven't had time to restart).