I am so tired of the scammers/liars/assholes who prey on mature chub daddies that are sincere and honest in life and write that way in their profile. I must be too frickin nice. I spell it all out in my profiles so the reader knows exactly what they are getting. So I guess they think they are getting a sucker....ME.

Here is how the scam ran: they were all in the military or govt contractors and worked out of state and out of the country and would get caught up where they were and then would contact me to send them a gift card, gaming card, amazon card. The other scammer is usually younger and in a third world country and wants to get to the USA (and bring his mother) because they are poor and just want to be free. They need financial help to get here. So when I refused, they got pissed off and called me names and all the sweetness they exhibited was gone. Can you relate? Has this happened to you?? Tbh I have met REAL CARING guys on here that fit the above description but end up not being a match. Its frustrating.

I know that I am a chub and that is a certain type for some gay guys. So I know there is hope out there. I've been on SD and BC A4A Silver Singles and nothing but pain and misery most of the time lol.

Should I just give up or fight the good fight?