Okay so as the title says, every time I have sex with a guy that a little thicker (which does happen) I bleed. It’s not haemorrhoids, when I spread my hole it looks like there is this “flap” that isn’t as stretchy as the rest of the skin, and I have noticed, that that’s always where I start bleeding. Now I have had sex with thicker men without any issues, but even with dildos starting out with thinner ones and then using a cone shaped one to stretch, I still start bleeding. Maybe I am too inpatient, but this is really bothering me.

Since dildos are harder, it usually happens more with dildos. But I know this one guy who is very very well endowed. 8.5 inches and THICK. For some reason he’s the only guy who knows how to get it in without any pain… however, I have bleed every single time we have had sex. It’s annoying and quite frankly, even if it doesn’t bother me that much, I doubt that it is good for my body.

Idk I can’t change my anatomy so I am really lost in this one. What do you guys think?