I've been dating this guy for a few weeks, its still new but I feel like I keep having to keep the communication open because he can go days without texting me back. I honestly get anxious because I want to plan things with him but I feel like he's losing interest when he doesn't respond. When we are together we have a good time but then he is always hot and cold with me. I have to always ask him or mention he's always distant with me and for him to get close. He mentions he really likes me but then when I reciprocate he always pulls back. He tells me all the time how guys like to just only have sex with him and he's tired of the apps and what not but again I am right here giving you what you want because I also want what you want but he never puts in back. The time we did hookup it felt like he didn't even though we were intimate or warming up to it and then when I was about to leave he then wanted to do it. The thing that makes me more upset is that he was the one to pursue me, so what gives?