I've never done anything with a guy before. Only kissed once and it was a simple peck with a middle aged guy at a club. Should my first bj or wank be with a guy closer to my age? Theres a younger guy I talk to often who'd be down. But I also feel like an older guy would be less awkward. Plus a guy from Grindr is offering me $500 for a first time bj, or $300 for not my first. Personally I think long term I'd feel better saying my first time was a guy my age. Its less seedy I guess. Slightly more wholesome lol.

Also forgot mention. I've never had a bf. Should I sexually experiment before commuting to a partner? Open relationships exist, but it's probably best to have a fully committed first bf.